What if I told you, you could be free from toxic and manipulative people?

Are you trying to understand what has been happening in your relationship, but having a hard time putting your finger on it? Are you looking for answers on how to best handle toxic individuals in your life? Are you looking for a short guide to summarize the information in one place?

Narcissistic abuse is an insidious and deliberate crime, but armored with healthy tools, skills and the knowledge to overcome, we can move forward with hope.  Learning to overcome the devastation from narcissistic abuse will free you to heal, recover, and to take your life back.

Narcissistic abuse which can go under the radar for many years, even decades, which leaves many feeling deeply confused.  At the same time as the reality is exposed of the abuse and they are victims of an of an insidious and deliberate crime, they can see the fog lift and to see the true hidden agenda. 

There is so much to learn at first.  I wrote this book as an introductory tool to put all the information in one place, to save time, for those who have recently discovered narcissistic traits and desire to begin the journey to learn more.

You won’t find a more condensed book to overcome the devastation and heal than this one…

With this book, which became an Amazon Best Seller, you can save yourself time by following the steps and have the tool belt of knowledge to assist in moving forward from someone who has been there.

Also available on Paperback and Kindle

Are you walking on eggshells in your relationship?

Do you feel controlled, even manipulated, told what to say, and how to act?

If this is you, perhaps you feel like you are going crazy in your relationship.  Perhaps you are exhausted from trying to perform and keep up with the demands put upon you, or maybe you feel you are being controlled, and manipulated but are having a hard time putting your finger on it.

This book is to blow the lid off the emotional abuse that occurs, detail the aspects of it, which is often not seen, and in most circles is not acceptable to discuss.  It’s empowerment. It’s education. It’s about validating your experiences so you can choose to rebuild, and from then, it opens the doors of things to come.

This book will uncover the hidden schemes, expose it broad daylight, in a clear and organized fashion, so you can make the best decisions possible for your situation – written by a survivor, who shares a brief summary of her story in this book, and who has been there. 

Narcissists are master manipulators. If they were to show their true colors and intentions in the beginning of a relationship, there wouldn’t be any takers.  Who would voluntarily sign up to be with a controlling, ego-hungry emotional manipulator? No one would.

They cleverly orchestrate a certain persona to bring you into the relationship by using tactics.  They do not reveal who they are, and once in a relationship with a narcissist, the mask starts to crack, and traits and characteristics of an abusive and toxic individual show.

Lynn shares a bit of her story in this book, new release 02/2021, now available on Kindle.  Audio Coming Soon!

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