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Videos on Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Welcome to our Video Hub, a space created with your journey in mind. We know how hard it can be to face the aftermath of narcissistic abuse, and we honor every step you’ve already taken toward healing.
I’m Lynn, the creative force behind these videos. Though I rarely appear on screen, I’ve chosen immersive storytelling and realistic scene reconstructions to bring tough conversations about narcissistic abuse and cultural dynamics to life. My goal is to present this challenging material in a way that invites understanding, sparks healing, and empowers you to reclaim your voice. Thank you for being here and joining me on this journey.
Here’s what you’ll find here:
Validation through Authentic Storytelling
Most of our videos bring your experiences into focus with carefully recreated scenes that capture moments many struggle to put into words. You might watch:
• A family dinner where gaslighting unfolds in subtle exchanges
• A walk alone at dawn that reflects the mix of relief and fear after no-contact
• A quiet boardroom moment that uncovers unspoken rules of power
These aren’t polished lectures. They’re lived moments designed to help you recognize what happened, acknowledge how it felt, and know you’re not alone in this.
Practical Steps for Rebuilding
We pair each scene with tools you can use right away, because small actions build lasting strength. You’ll get:
• Journaling prompts to explore your boundaries and honor your needs
• Conversation scripts to practice asserting yourself—one calm word at a time
• Reflection exercises that guide you toward trusting your own voice again
Exploring Hidden Dynamics
Your personal healing matters—and so does understanding the systems that shaped your experience. Through lived scenarios, we shine a light on:
• Family gatherings where old roles and expectations quietly enforce silence
• Workplace meetings that reveal bias in everyday language
• Institutional moments tracing how norms and laws reinforce self-doubt
By witnessing these scenes, you’ll gain insight into wider patterns and feel empowered to challenge them in your own life.
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Follow along so you’ll never miss an episode and become part of a supportive network where you can share insights and encouragement with fellow survivors, celebrate every step forward—from setting a boundary to reclaiming your voice and stay inspired with fresh perspectives, practices, and reminders that you’re not alone.
Subscribe now and connect with a community dedicated to healing and lasting empowerment.
Internalized Misogyny and Patriarchy: 5 Ways Women Uphold the System
The Shocking Origins of the Pick Me Culture | How Patriarchy Trained Women to Be Chosen
Is the Great Divorce Next? Why the Women are Going to Leave the Men in Droves
Am I attracting narcissists? Learn which character traits draw the attention of narcissists!
Plus Bonus!
How Can I Rebuild my Confidence after Narcissistic Abuse? Tune in to find out!
Should I Confront the Narcissist? What do I do?
Leaving the Narcissist | 6 Practical Steps to Freedom
The Family Scapegoat: 3 Uncommon Benefits
Will the Narcissist Change? 3 Reasons Why It's Unlikely!
7 Stages of Grief and Loss after Narcissistic Abuse
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Ep. 106 How Societal Gaslighting, Love Bombing, and Manipulation Became Cultural Norms
How Society Mirrors the Narcissist’s Playbook The following is a brief transcript of the episode from the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast. Podcast: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast Host: Lynn Nichols Follow our work beyond the podcast: We publish essays and insights on Medium

Weaponized Empathy: 7 Shocking Reasons Why Narcissists Target the Most Compassionate Women
Weaponized Empathy Have you ever wondered why it was you? Why, out of everyone he could have chosen, the narcissist in your life zeroed in on you specifically? If you’re someone who prides yourself on being understanding, empathetic, and compassionate,

Ep. 104 Triangulation: The Invisible People Ruining Your Relationship (And How to Spot Them)
Triangulation: here’s what makes this particularly difficult for people who’ve experienced narcissistic abuse: You may have been conditioned to think this is just how relationships work. If you grew up in a family where people never talked directly to each other, where messages were always passed through third parties, where you were constantly hearing about what ‘other people’ thought – this might feel familiar. Not comfortable, but familiar.

How AI Is Reshaping Society in 2025: Infrastructure, Cognition, Bias, and the Future of Human Intelligence
Exploring the Massive Impact of Artificial Intelligence on Global Systems, Human Thinking, Ethical Challenges, and Inequality AI is Reshaping Society Stand at the edge of any moment in history and you will find people certain they understand their world. We

Ep. 102 Emotionally Absent: When Patriarchy Teaches Men to Disconnect
Emotionally Absent Have you spent years feeling unseen in your relationship, wondering why someone who says they love you can’t seem to connect with you emotionally? In this episode, we explore the hidden emotional architecture behind that disconnect — specifically,

400,000 Women Are Proving Solo Travel Is the Ultimate Form of Female Empowerment – Solo Female Travelers Club
When was the last time you heard someone say “women shouldn’t travel alone”? Unfortunately, it probably wasn’t that long ago. Despite making up the majority of travel decision-makers globally, women continue to face skepticism, safety concerns, and industry barriers when