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Why the Narcissist Studies You, The Motivation Plus Ramifications Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium From the onset of the relationship with a narcissist, the game has begun. Their antics are ready to go and you will be the target for a while. They will study you, learn your behaviors because they have ulterior motives at…
The Strained Relationship Between the Scapegoat and Golden Child Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium By design, one or more narcissistic parent(s) have created a disturbing and unhealthy relational connection between the family assigned roles of scapegoat and golden child. Neither role is desirable, and both suffer from consequences of this defined role not only with…
Be Alert to the Narcissist’s 7 Devious Tools of Distraction Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium If you’ve just checked your Twitter feed, Instagram DM’s, email, text and your new TikTok blast in the last 15 minutes, while driving and eating your lunch, you may agree that our current reality encapsulates a life of ongoing distractions….
Reconnect with your Intuition after a Narcissistic Relationship Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium Intuition is More than a Feeling Intuition, the ability to understand something immediately, without the need for conscious reasoning, is often referred to as a ‘gut reaction’ in acquiring new knowledge or experiences. Psychologists believe intuition draws from past experiences in our…
6 Hidden Reasons Why Online Dating is a Cesspool for Narcissists Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium Online dating has been around for decades, since 1995 to be exact, when match.com was launched. It was the first dating website and many people created a profile in search for a partner without having to leave their home….
Self-Blame and Shame – 2 Courageous Introspective Matters of the Heart in the Healing Process Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium If you have been in a relationship with a narcissist, your inner flower has started to wilt, even the leaves have started to fall off. You may be in need of water and sun and…
Should I Confront a Narcissist? Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium Ok, so you know. I mean you really know. You caught on to the narcissist. You see through the games, the lies, the deception, the manipulation. You want to confront the narcissist. The light bulb went on and you had your ah-ha moment. You…
4 Types of Empaths | Which One are you? Facebook Youtube Instagram Empathy is almost becoming a new buzzword as people are realizing the impact and importance of this unique quality. When people think of empathic types, or even the word empath, it is commonly connected to a relationship with a narcissist, although there are…
Will the narcissist change? Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium This question, “Will the narcissist change?” is among the top searches as it relates to narcissistic abuse and narcissism as a whole. It is researched and asked time and time again. We are going to take a moment and address this age-old question and topic and…
3 Uncommon Benefits of Being the Family Scapegoat* Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium In a Narcissistic family cult, ah, I mean, unit, there are characters, just like in a movie set, yes actors, that play a certain role for the duration of the movie. In a narcissistic family, the characters, namely the sons, daughters, parents,…
How to Manage Empathy: 3 TIps to Have Boundaries around Your Special Trait Podcast Facebook Youtube Instagram X-twitter Medium Empaths: If you have found your way to this page, perhaps you have been in a relationship with a narcissist, and have been told, or heard it through the grapevine, that you may be what is…
Groomed For Silence Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium F*ck Silence When in a relationship with a narcissist, silence becomes the unspoken rule. The abused learns what they can do and not do, say and not say, and over time are conditioned into abiding by the rules as a learned behavior and as part of an…
The 7 STAGES OF GRIEF And Loss After Narcissistic Abuse Podcast Facebook Youtube Instagram X-twitter Medium Link Stages of Grief and Loss In Overcoming the Devastation from Narcissistic Abuse, How to Heal, Recover and Take your Life Back, it lists 7 stages of grief in the process of healing and recovering from narcissistic abuse and…
Is it Time to Get off the Treadmill of Performance (going from More To More)? Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium When in a relationship with a narcissistic abuser, we are often taught do more, and to maintain a high- performance level, inadvertently, of course. We are indirectly told we are not enough, no matter how…
Why Narcissistic Abuse Is so Devastating The Abuse Cycle Facebook Youtube Instagram This page contains affiliate links, that if purchased, we may receive a commission at no additional cost to you. In addition, as an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Table of Contents A Bird’s Eye Viewpoint At the onset of discovering we…
Why Self-Doubt is the Narcissists Biggest Weapon
6 Steps to Retrain Your Brain after Narcissistic Injury
Ignored by a narcissist? Being in a relationship with a narcissist can be infuriating. It is NOT like most relationships. It can take years or even decades to uncover and see through the masks they so cleverly wear. Their disguise is perfected, polished, and preserved – even from those they closely associate with.
Most people are drawn in by their wittiness, smile, and candor, and may be quickly enticed by their flattery and knowledge. On the outside and especially around others, they will appear to be charming, attentive, and treat you kindly, but when in a one-on-one encounter they are absent, disconnected, deliberately unaware of your needs, and lack empathy to feel your pain or viewpoint from your side.
The Narcissist Seek 6 things from you.
7 Techniques Narcissists Use to Obtain Supply
5 Ways to Survive the Holidays
I felt the pain again, understood and grieved it deep within my heart and realized the impact. The earth stood still for a split second, shock in the moment, as I digested this and from there I decided to move on with my life. It has been the largest healing adventure of my life. It was going to BE MY LIFE now. I wasn’t going to live to please or put others’ wishes, wants, desires above my own pursuits.
6 truths in loss after narcissistic abuse
Surviving narcissistic abuse leads to significant personal growth including freedom from toxic relationships, reduced anxiety, and a renewed perspective on relationships. It fosters a stronger sense of self-worth, unlimited potential, and healthier mindsets. While recovery involves loss and takes time, it ultimately opens opportunities for thriving and personal transformation.
Traits: A narcissist will look for prey, as if it is their source of survival. They are looking for individuals to “feed them” and go along with their planned agenda. A narcissist is searching for traits and certain attributes and has devised a plan to keep their supply intact. They do this so they can feel in control, worthy, even if for evil planning. It’s sickening and maddening for those in their path.