Groomed For Silence Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium F*ck Silence When in a relationship with a narcissist, silence becomes the unspoken rule. The abused learns what they can do and not do, say and not say, and over time are conditioned into abiding by the rules as a learned behavior and as part of an…
The 7 STAGES OF GRIEF And Loss After Narcissistic Abuse Podcast Facebook Youtube Instagram X-twitter Medium Link Stages of Grief and Loss In Overcoming the Devastation from Narcissistic Abuse, How to Heal, Recover and Take your Life Back, it lists 7 stages of grief in the process of healing and recovering from narcissistic abuse and…
Is it Time to Get off the Treadmill of Performance (going from More To More)? Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium When in a relationship with a narcissistic abuser, we are often taught do more, and to maintain a high- performance level, inadvertently, of course. We are indirectly told we are not enough, no matter how…
Facebook Youtube Instagram Master Manipulators: Discover Covert Tactics Narcissists Devise to Manipulate, Deceive and Control Are you walking on eggshells in your relationship? Do you feel controlled, even manipulated, told what to say, and how to act? If this is you, perhaps you feel like you are going crazy in your relationship. Perhaps you are…
Why Narcissistic Abuse Is so Devastating The Abuse Cycle Facebook Youtube Instagram This page contains affiliate links, that if purchased, we may receive a commission at no additional cost to you. In addition, as an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Table of Contents A Bird’s Eye Viewpoint At the onset of discovering we…
Guide to Terms Facebook Youtube Instagram Learning about narcissistic abuse can be confusing especially with terms such as flying monkey, gaslight, and Stockholm Syndrome. It’s almost like learning a second language. We have created a Guide to Terms to aid in your research as you learn about narcissistic abuse. Table of Contents Narcissist A Narcissistic…
Causes of Panic Attacks Facebook Youtube Instagram The short and obvious answer: panic attacks are caused by high anxiety. But, what exactly is anxiety? Understanding how anxiety crops up will help you defeat panic attacks. One of the biggest myths surrounding anxiety is that it is harmful and can lead to a number of various…
Should I buy the narcissist a gift?
Why Self-Doubt is the Narcissists Biggest Weapon
6 Steps to Retrain Your Brain after Narcissistic Injury
Ignored by a narcissist? Being in a relationship with a narcissist can be infuriating. It is NOT like most relationships. It can take years or even decades to uncover and see through the masks they so cleverly wear. Their disguise is perfected, polished, and preserved – even from those they closely associate with.
Most people are drawn in by their wittiness, smile, and candor, and may be quickly enticed by their flattery and knowledge. On the outside and especially around others, they will appear to be charming, attentive, and treat you kindly, but when in a one-on-one encounter they are absent, disconnected, deliberately unaware of your needs, and lack empathy to feel your pain or viewpoint from your side.
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I felt the pain again, understood and grieved it deep within my heart and realized the impact. The earth stood still for a split second, shock in the moment, as I digested this and from there I decided to move on with my life. It has been the largest healing adventure of my life. It was going to BE MY LIFE now. I wasn’t going to live to please or put others’ wishes, wants, desires above my own pursuits.
6 truths in loss after narcissistic abuse
Surviving narcissistic abuse leads to significant personal growth including freedom from toxic relationships, reduced anxiety, and a renewed perspective on relationships. It fosters a stronger sense of self-worth, unlimited potential, and healthier mindsets. While recovery involves loss and takes time, it ultimately opens opportunities for thriving and personal transformation.
Traits: A narcissist will look for prey, as if it is their source of survival. They are looking for individuals to “feed them” and go along with their planned agenda. A narcissist is searching for traits and certain attributes and has devised a plan to keep their supply intact. They do this so they can feel in control, worthy, even if for evil planning. It’s sickening and maddening for those in their path.
The threshold has been reached and you realized it is time for you to leave the narcissist and go no contact.
Another argument has occurred out of the blue on why I wore blue socks?
Pointless and deliberate targeted arguments that were intentionally designed to degrade the mind surface again. These arguments are crazy-making and manufactured to get you to go over the edge and lose it, of course then, it would be all your fault, right?
Maybe you are saying, “I can’t believe I am in this predicament!”
Perhaps you have determined that you are ready to leave.
Okay, it is time. Time to go.
Confidence after Narcissistic Abuse – 4 Tips to Boost Your Confidence
Facebook Youtube Instagram This page was updated on May 8, 2023. Table of Contents Am I with a narcissist? It is estimated 158 million people in the U.S. are affected by narcissistic abuse, and an estimated 6 percent* have narcissistic personality disorder. The numbers are staggering, and it’s likely you know someone who has…
4 Steps to Overcome Financial Abuse Podcast Facebook Youtube Instagram X-twitter Medium Financial abuse is a terrifying experience. You can regain control again over your own finances. It may take some time, but keep your spirits high as you move forward. We are going to talk about several steps to help navigate and to regain…
Is Narcissistic Abuse a Hate Crime? Facebook Youtube Instagram Twitter Medium Narcissistic Abuse. It’s an insidious crime. Should it be classified in its own category as a hate-crime? In this article we will discuss how an individual can be affected by narcissistic abuse and tip to handle going forward, an encouraging message. Table of Contents…
Narcissist Kryptonite: A narcissist thrives in certain environments when their needs are met. When things go awry, and their needs are not met, or they have been ousted, they will not be happy campers.
In this article, we are going to explore the biggest fears of a narcissist, which are the very things they don’t want you to ever do or act on or heaven forbid, even have knowledge of. Let’s begin.
My story, aka the event that occurred in my life, was when I gained insight about my relationships. The walls came tumbling down in my life. Though the story doesn’t end in devastation, but in rebuilding. It has led to be life-changing for me, and today I am so grateful for everything that occurred. I’m moving forward with my passions, learning, growing, pursuing my life hobbies and missions. The events as I have laid out, didn’t overtake me. I have learned to embrace my current situation, see my life with a whole new set of eyes,