Episode 126: Good Woman Programming: Why You Tolerate Emotional Neglect
How centuries of conditioning made you the perfect target for narcissistic abuse
You’ve been taught that your value comes from what you give, not from having needs of your own. From childhood, you learned that being a ‘good woman’ means being selfless, nurturing, and always putting everyone else first—no matter what it costs you emotionally. The problem is, this programming doesn’t just shape how you see yourself. It shapes how narcissistic family members and partners treat you. They know you’ve been conditioned to find your worth in service, to tolerate emotional neglect as a sign of your generosity, and to blame yourself when relationships feel one-sided and draining.
• Why being praised for your selflessness in one context becomes weaponized against you in another—and how to spot the difference
• The subtle way narcissistic systems exploit your ‘good woman’ conditioning to keep you focused on everyone else’s needs while your emotional reality disappears
• How you learned to measure your worth by how little you require rather than how much you deserve—and why this trap feels impossible to escape
• The shocking realization about what healthy relationships actually require from both people, and why you were never taught this
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Discover a safe haven and a wellspring of insight with the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast (formerly Moving Forward with Hope – Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast). In this candid, thought-provoking current series, host Lynn—personal survivor, author, and passionate recovery advocate—guides you through the landscape of toxic relationships and the covert dynamics of narcissistic abuse. With honesty, depth, and a healthy dose of tough love, Lynn helps you recognize the subtle tactics of manipulation and offers practical strategies to heal, rebuild, and reclaim your power.
Episodes dive deep into the complexities of narcissistic family systems, exploring roles like scapegoat and golden child, and shedding light on the pain of ostracization and family rejection. If you’ve been the family scapegoat—blamed, dismissed, and cast aside—this podcast validates your experience and provides a roadmap for breaking free from toxic family patterns. We tackle topics like going no contact, setting boundaries, understanding scapegoat dynamics, healing from family trauma, and uncovering covert manipulation that keeps you from thriving. Our conversations go beyond personal trauma to examine how narcissism is woven into broader cultural systems, including patriarchy’s influence on gender roles and equality.
