130: Why Scapegoats Become People Pleasers | Narcissistic Abuse
The survival strategy that keeps you trapped—and how to recognize it
The survival strategy that keeps you trapped—and how to recognize it
The devastating one-two punch that destroys your trust in reality and yourself
The systemic conditioning that teaches women to ask for less and accept emotional abandonment
The systemic devaluation that fuels emotional neglect and scapegoating in recovery
How centuries of conditioning made you the perfect target for narcissistic abuse
The hidden training that makes you vulnerable to narcissistic abuse
Why your anger was never the problem—and how to reclaim it
Elevated for visibility, blamed for everything: how narcissists weaponize your success
When sexism becomes invisible control disguised as biology and values
When society’s rules become weapons against your autonomy and recovery
Ep. 115 Men Know What Respect Is: Why the Confusion Excuse Doesn’t Hold Up Observing How Men Show Respect to Each Other Reveals What They’re Capable Of Published: January 08 2026 Your browser…
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This article explains emotional labor and why women disproportionately perform it, including the mental load in relationships and workplaces, research on gender inequality in care work, health impacts of invisible labor, and systemic solutions for redistributing emotional management responsibilities.
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We Move Forward Together With Unbelievable Strength Join our Exclusive Community on Supercast! Hope Without Expectation Follow our work beyond the podcast: We publish essays and insights on Medium through our Moving Forward with Hope…
Review on Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love by Bell Hooks Bell Hooks: I will give a standing ovation to Bell Hooks who bravely, accurately, boldly, and thoroughly has taken on the…
How Alanis Morissette Exposed What Women Really Experience with Men Sympathetic Character – Have you heard? In 1998, one song said what we were all thinking but afraid to say out loud I…