130: Why Scapegoats Become People Pleasers | Narcissistic Abuse
The survival strategy that keeps you trapped—and how to recognize it
Stories of personal growth, independence, and taking on new challenges after leaving a narcissistic relationship or family.
The survival strategy that keeps you trapped—and how to recognize it
The devastating one-two punch that destroys your trust in reality and yourself
The systemic conditioning that teaches women to ask for less and accept emotional abandonment
The systemic devaluation that fuels emotional neglect and scapegoating in recovery
How centuries of conditioning made you the perfect target for narcissistic abuse
The hidden training that makes you vulnerable to narcissistic abuse
Why your anger was never the problem—and how to reclaim it
Elevated for visibility, blamed for everything: how narcissists weaponize your success
When sexism becomes invisible control disguised as biology and values
When society’s rules become weapons against your autonomy and recovery
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This article explains emotional labor and why women disproportionately perform it, including the mental load in relationships and workplaces, research on gender inequality in care work, health impacts of invisible labor, and systemic solutions for redistributing emotional management responsibilities.
The Subtle Drain of Emotional Energy The emotional energy dynamics within personal relationships can significantly impact one’s overall well-being and financial stability. Particularly, women’s emotional power is sometimes inadvertently diminished by their interactions…
Introduction to Narrative Reframing Narrative reframing refers to the process by which dominant cultures or mainstream societal forces alter, reinterpret, or co-opt the language, imagery, and intent of a movement in a way…
How Society Mirrors the Narcissist’s Playbook The following is a brief transcript of the episode from the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast. Podcast: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast Host: Lynn Nichols Follow our work beyond the…
Weaponized Empathy Have you ever wondered why it was you? Why, out of everyone he could have chosen, the narcissist in your life zeroed in on you specifically? If you’re someone who prides…
Emotionally Absent Have you spent years feeling unseen in your relationship, wondering why someone who says they love you can’t seem to connect with you emotionally? In this episode, we explore the hidden…
When was the last time you heard someone say “women shouldn’t travel alone”? Unfortunately, it probably wasn’t that long ago. Despite making up the majority of travel decision-makers globally, women continue to face…